Assumptions and Arguments

Yesterday I did a post on YouTube about things that make my marriage a happier place (I'll post it tomorrow). One of those things is, being aware of when I am making up a story making up a story or assuming. I wanted to talk a little bit today about assumptions is arguments. When we come to an argument with assumptions it can make it really hard to listen to what our partner is saying or to hear their point of view. Just think about it, when we assume, we have already decided what we believe is true. That doesn't leave room for much else. Making assumptions isn't bad, we do it all the time, it's when we try to apply those assumptions to someone else that we run into trouble. So try to be aware of when you are assuming you know exactly what someone else means. Chances are you don't and there is probably room to learn something new about you and your partner. Where do your assumptions hurt you most in relationships?

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What's All The Drama About?

What's your drama telling you about you? The drama in our lives can tell us a lot about ourselves if we are willing to slow down and listen. Check out the video for more :).

Also, I have a FREE tele-class coming up in the next few weeks, so I will keep you posted. For more info you can email me @ SoulMAteCoachCrystal.@gmail.com or visit my website @ www.SoulMateCoachCrystal.com. Talk to you soon. Blessing............Crystal

Being Present in Our Life

Slowing down and being present in our lives can feel hard at times. It can be so tempting to ignore the icky parts ( insecurity, fear, uneasiness, etc) and busy ourselves to keep from having to be present with the fact that something is going on with us. We will use work, kids, husbands, heck just about anything to keep from looking at what is really going on.

You know that feeling that I am talking about. Sometimes it happens when all the busyness of life dies down and everything is quite and that feeling creeps up that says something is not right. Other times it happens when we look around our lives and begin to ask thing like, "Who am I and how did my life get this way?" It can also show up as a nagging uneasiness that eats away at us day and night, subtly saying that we are missing something, we just don't know what it is.

The urge to turn away from these feeling and busy ourselves with something else can feel really tempting. To clean the house, work on a project for work or perhaps to run some errands.

But I am going to suggest that you try something different. Instead of turning away, walk towards the uneasiness. Ask the hard questions. Things like: What do I really want, what am I afraid of and what is this all about? The thing is this, what we resist persists and by not being present with the uncomfortable stuff we actually keep it around. So, what have you been running from and what do you need to do to be present with it today?

For more make sure to check out my website @ www.SoulMateCoachCrystal.com. Blessings........Crystal

Attract Create and Maintain A Lasting and Loving Relationship

Hi Guys! This is my new video for my website. I am so excited about it! For more information you can email me @ SoulMateCoachCrystal@gmail.com or visit my website @ www.SoulMateCoachCrystal.com. Blessings.........Crystal

Is You Mindset Standing Between You and The Relationship of YOur Dreams?

Sometimes we can unknowing stand in the way of attracting the kind of relationship that we want. We can so this with our mindset. Sometimes we are so committed to believing in our mindset that we are not in touch with what we really want. As the adage goes, what we feed grows, so if we are feeding a mindset that doesn't reflect what we what, we will get more of what we don't want showing up in our lives. Where is your mindset standing in the way of creating the life or relationship that you want?

Thanks for stopping by. For more information, visit me on my website @ www.SoulMateCoachCrystal.com. You can also see more videos my visiting my You Tube channel @ www.youtube.com/SoulMateCoachCrystal. For a free coaching session email me @ SoulMateCoachCrystal@gmail.com. Again, thanks for stopping by. Talk to you soon. Blessings......Crystal

What To Do When A Friend Is Being "Strung Along"

If you are watching a friend be strung along or mistreated in a relationship, this video is for you. It can be so hard to watch someone that you love go through a tough time. We often feel helpless as we watch someone that we love dearly get a "raw deal". This video will help you with ways to ease some of that pain. Take Care and Blessings.............Crystal

5 signs He's NOT Going to Marry You

Nothing is 100% but there are definite signs that he is not going to marry you, despite what he says. Take a gander at my video for more on how to tell if he is really thinking about marrying you or buying time.

I welcome all questions and comments. You can email me at SoulMateCoachCrystal@gmail.com or visit my website at www.SoulMateCoachCrystal.com. Talk to you soon. Blessings...........Crystal